50 Random Acts of Kindness ~ Ideas to Inspire Kindness

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”

Have you ever heard that quote? If you want the world to be more kind, you need to be more kind. If you want the world to be more mindful, you must be more mindful.

A random act of kindness is a selfless act performed by kind people to either help or cheer up a random stranger, friend, neighbor or co-worker for no reason other than to make them happier. It doesn’t matter if it’s spontaneous or planned, all that matters is that you’ve brightened someone’s day!

Nothing is to big or too small, whether you buy a coffee for the person behind you at the coffee shop or pay someone’s bill at a restaurant.

Acts of kindness are more powerful than you may think. A small kind gesture could completely change someone’s day, week, month or year!

Here are some ideas to get you started on your random acts of kindness:

  1. Pay for someone’s coffee at the coffee shop – This is probably the most common act of kindness that you hear about. It doesn’t matter if the next person has the money to pay for their coffee or not. The amazing thing about this act, is the amount of people that keep paying it forward. I was speaking to a friend of mine who works in a coffee shop. She said the most powerful part of this is how far the free coffees go. She will tell the person at the counter that their coffee has been paid for and then that person almost always buys the next person’s coffee. Amazing.
  2. Compliment someone everyday – Just saying something small can change someone’s entire day. “Your hair looks nice”,  “I love that shirt” or “You have a beautiful smile”. Whatever you feel comfortable saying to someone without being fake, or feeling uncomfortable. Read an article HERE about how receiving a compliment gives you the same feeling as when you receive money.
  3. Send a card –  Homemade or store bought, that’s up to you. You could send cards to patients at hospitals or nursing homes. You can start the letter with “Dear Friend”. If you don’t know where to send your letters, check out this website called Love for the Elderly.
  4. Send a letter or care package to a soldier – Go to anysoldier.com for info and instructions on how to send a letter or care package to a soldier.
  5. Plant some seeds and give out the plants  You can buy packs of seeds for less than a dollar. Plant them in dixie cups, egg shells, yogurt containers or babyfood jars. Once it starts to grow, attach a little kind note and/or care instructions and give away! Set up a table in your drive way that says FREE PLANTS or put one on each door step on your street.
  6. Buy some cold drinks for people working outside in the summer – It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Buy a gallon of juice, water or Gatorade and get some paper cups. If you see people working outside in the winter, bring them some hot chocolate, coffee or tea.
  7. Make Blessing bags or Hygiene bags to give to the homeless – There are many resources on the internet to look up how to make these and of course you could make up your own. Go HERE to see a check list to give you ideas on what you could put in yours.
  8. Tip your waitperson extra – Give a great tip to your waitperson who went above and beyond. Or maybe tip them extra to make them smile or tip them extra for no reason at all!
  9. Be an ELF – Check the Beanelf.org website to see if you live near any of the participating post offices. Then buy gifts for the children for Christmas. If you do not live near any of the participating post offices, call social services or the police station to ask how you could sponsor a family or a child for Christmas. Go HERE for other ways to be an ELF.
  10. Pay for someone’s meal – Ask the waitperson not to tell them who did. Have the waitperson give them a note that says “Pass on the kindness” or any other positive message.
  11. Make meals for the elderly or home bound people – Maybe you have someone in mind already that’s in your neighborhood. Don’t know who could use a home cooked meal?? Call the senior center in your town, I bet they will have an idea.
  12. Write positive messages on Post-Its – Then leave them in random places. The mirror in a public restroom, next to the coin slot on a vending machine or the back of a bus seat. The possibilities are endless. “You are beautiful!” or “You are Strong” are just a couple of examples.
  13. Say hi and wave to strangers – This little free act of kindness could make someone smile and completely change their day!
  14. Donate Items to the homeless shelter or food bank – It doesn’t only have to be food. Call them and ask them what they are really in need of. Donate what most people are not thinking of. Deodorant, feminine hygiene products, razors, water bottles, toothbrushes, toothpaste, diapers, formula or socks.
  15. Donate or hold a fundraiser to help foster kids – There is a great organization called Together We Rise. They are a charity that helps give filled duffel bags to foster kids. Donate to sponsor a duffel bag or hold a fundraiser to sponsor multiple duffel bags, give bikes and skateboards to foster kids and send them birthday boxes! This is one amazing organization!
  16. Write a thank you note – Thank a police officer, a veteran, your mail carrier, a teacher, the list goes on…….
  17. Leave pennies HEADS UP on sidewalks – Finding a penny “heads up” is good luck, right? Give someone the gift of good luck!
  18. Hold the door open – For anyone and everyone, every chance you get.
  19. Give your old books to the library – The library usually will take all book donations as long as the books are in good shape.
  20. Buy a lottery ticket for a stranger – Get some quick picks or scratch tickets, hand them out and wish them good luck!
  21. Donate a toy or book to a waiting room –  Doctor’s office or Oil change service center. Any waiting room that is need of a toy or book to occupy a little one.
  22. Make Kindness Stones and leave them places – Check out this website Thekindnessrocksproject.com and search Pinterest for quote ideas.
  23. Pick up Litter – Find a spot in need and clean it up. If everyone did this, just imagine how clean and beautiful every place could be…
  24. Buy EXTRA school supplies for a teacher – Your child’s teacher or any teacher. Don’t know what to buy? Give them a gift card to Walmart or a Arts and Crafts store.
  25. Make dinner for a family who has a new baby – And while your at it, watch the baby so they can actually eat it.
  26. Give away stuff for FREE – Put an add on Craigslist or Facebook and give something away for free that you do not need anymore.
  27. Donate your old eyeglasses instead of throwing them away – The Lyons Club is just one place that will find someone who is in need of your old pair.
  28. Send anonymous flowers to someone –  Anyone who you think could use it. Someone at work, someone random, a teacher, a mom, someone who works hard….
  29. Baby-sit for a single mom for free – Of course it is kind to baby-sit for anyone for free. As a single mom, I will NEVER FORGET the friends that did this for me!
  30. Leave a Gift at the Laundromat – Maybe some quarters on top of a machine or buy some soap and static sheets and leave them at the machine with a little kind note!
  31. Plant a tree – When you plant a tree, you are being kind to everyone AND the Earth!
  32. Always say YES when the cashier asks you to donate $1.00 – Not only is it kind to donate to charity, often the cashier who gets the most people to donate ‘wins’ something from their employer.
  33. Give someone a hug – Anyone, but please ASK first and make sure it’s ok.
  34. Befriend a lonely or shy person – Sometimes others have difficulty starting conversations. That’s where YOU come in.
  35. Let people ‘Merge in’ During traffic – EVEN if no one was letting you in, the kindness has to start somewhere!
  36. Keep extra pens on hand – Don’t just let someone use your pen, give them your extra!
  37. Be a mentor – Maybe you already have someone in mind you can mentor, if you don’t, you could be a Big Brother or Big Sister.
  38. Help someone look for a job – Keep an eye out for job openings for them or maybe just help them spice up their resume.
  39. Put extra coins in someone’s parking meter – Giving some of your pocket change could give someone the gift of NOT getting a parking ticket!
  40. Talk to a manager about their GREAT employee – Be that person who wants to talk to the manager about their GREAT experience! It will be refreshing to the manager to not hear someone complain and maybe the employee will get something nice!
  41. Share a friend’s Facebook Page, Blog, Etsy Shop or You Tube video – Let them know that you see their efforts and show them you care.
  42. Hold the Elevator – If you see someone coming, hold it for them! You will make their day!
  43. Help someone move – Everyone hides when they hear someone’s moving! Be that person who offers to help pack up boxes or carry them to the truck!
  44. Say THANK YOU – And mean it!!
  45. Donate your hair – There are many places to donate your hair, but some organizations who take hair donations charge people for the wigs. Wigs for Kids gives FREE wigs to kids in need.
  46. Volunteer – There are many places you can volunteer besides the soup kitchen. Homeless shelters, animal shelters, farms, nursing homes, the YMCA, schools, the fire department and more.
  47. Pay it forward at the Ice Cream truck – Ask any ice cream truck driver how many kids ask for ice cream and have no money. More than you think!
  48. Help a neighbor – Yard work, shoveling snow, baby sitting, cooking, errands or anything else they have a need for.
  49. Let someone go ahead of you – Maybe someone behind you at the grocery store has less things than you or you have a pregnant lady behind you in the line to the bathroom. Just let them go first.
  50. Be kind to yourself – You will never truly be able to practice acts of kindness with out being kind to yourself first. Be mindful of the way you talk to yourself, because YOU are listening.

I hope my ideas inspired you! Please comment if you would like to share any ideas you have or share acts of kindness you have completed!


Let’s put our phones away and be people again.

A few years back, my daughter and I went to Six Flags. We spent the day going in and out of the water park so we rented a locker for our stuff. Including our phones. We had a great time! It was a little cloudy that day, so the park wasn’t very crowded and the lines were not as long. There were posters everywhere advertising the special Six Flags soda cup you could buy for some ridiculous price. I can’t totally remember but it was like if you bought the $20 cup, soda refills were only $3 or you could buy the $40 cup and soda refills were free. That is nuts to me, but anyway…. Literally EVERYONE had this cup except us. Every ride at Six Flags has a numbered cup holder near the cubbies where you can put your stuff and every cup cubby had like 10 or more cups in it. (On a day that was not very busy.) So all day, everywhere we looked, there were people staring at their cell phone screens drinking out of their crazy huge expensive soda cup. At one point when we were near the front of the park, they had a very mono toned man make an announcement on the loud speaker to ‘Hurry and get your Six Flags soda cup’ As, the announcement was happening and everyone around us was on their cell phones not speaking to each other, sipping their soda….. I started screaming to my daughter “We are in WALL-E!” I just wanted to get out of there!! (Anyone who HAS NOT seen WALL-E, It’s an animated film about the what the future could be like) See a clip HERE.

Don’t get me wrong, I think technology is great. I actually don’t know how we could ever go back to a time where we couldn’t bring our phone with us. And hello… the internet is amazing. Remember a time when we couldn’t look up any answer the second we thought of the question?? Omg, we used to have to go to sleep thinking and thinking and wondering…. Maybe look it up at the library or ask real live people. Now most of us have a phone that’s basically a little computer and we keep it real close, all.. day… long…

It makes me sad when I take my kids out to eat and we look around and people are on their phones and not talking to each other. Why have friends or a family if you don’t want to enjoy every minute you can with them? Read THIS interesting article where they link customer complaints in a restaurant to cell phone use. Stop using your phone and look at the menu. Stop taking pictures of your food and eat it. Crazy idea, eh?

Phones are also being linked to health issues whether you’d like to believe it or not. I just read an article about a group of students who placed trays of seeds near wifi routers and other places. The trays near the wifi routers did not grow. Yup.  Read about that HERE. Now, think about how many people sleep with the cell phone near their head.

Also there are many many articles you can read about how technology is the reason why time feels like it’s going by really fast. Ask someone who doesn’t use a smartphone or a computer if they feel like time is speeding past them. Read more about that HERE.

I am absolutely not saying I never use my phone. Of course I do, it’s a smartphone also.

What I am saying is, I don’t have it glued to my hand 24/7. When I’m having a meal with my family, we put our phones away. When you are at a restaurant with your family, put your phones away. When you do, you will see how we are living in a WALL-E world and you will really start becoming more mindful of your phone habits. You can do it. I have faith in you. Put down your phone and talk to your friends and family with your face and your real voice. Play an actual board game with real people. Go bowling, go to the beach, blow bubbles, lay in the grass and look for shooting stars. Go to the beach, walk around the mall, volunteer your time to help someone in need.

Don’t let the last thing that’s said about you be:

“Wow, she like really loved her cellphone.”


My Thoughts on Mindfulness Meditation

If you search the web for mindfulness meditation, literally a million things appear. Things have different meanings for different people. Mindfulness meditation to me, is paying attention to something in such a focused way your thoughts can go nowhere else. Be with your focus and you will be meditating in a way that is actually SO much easier than traditional meditation. Any time I just tried to meditate without a focus, my mind went nuts. Suddenly I’m thinking about the grocery list, my bills or what ever other stress I’m trying to forget about. Now all I can think about is how I don’t feel relaxed and I give up. Here are some examples of mindfulness meditation that are easy to do and very effective.

  • The Walking Meditation – There is no right or wrong way to do this. You can walk alone or with someone else. If you are walking alone, I suggest you do not listen to music. Listen to the sounds in the environment. Pay close attention to them. What are they? Do you like the sounds? Look at your surroundings. Stop and smell the flowers. Look at the bugs. Look at the different plants and how unique they all are. What does the sky look like today? What does the air smell like? Take slow deep breaths and be grateful that you are able to enjoy everything that is in your path. If you are walking with someone else, stay silent. Take turns walking in front of each other. If you are in front, do the walking meditation as if you are walking alone. If you are in back, you can do the same or you could focus on your partners footsteps. Match them if you want. This is actually extremely relaxing and doubles as exercise!
  • The Raisin Meditation – If you don’t like raisins, substitute for a different small fruit or nut. Again, there is no right or wrong way to do this. Get a small handful of raisins. Spread them out on a plate. Look at all their wrinkles. Look at the colors. Do they all look the same? Feel them. Squish them. Roll them in your fingers. Put one in your mouth. Feel it with your tongue. What does it feel like? What does it taste like? Is it changing when you just hold it in your mouth? Chew it slowly. Chew it until it completely dissolves in your mouth. How long did all of that take you? How do you feel? It’s pretty amazing how present you can be with something so small!
  • The Window Meditation – Find your favorite window that is most comfortable for you to sit at. The window can be opened or closed. See what you can see from the window. Hear what you can hear. Smell what you can smell. Be with each thing or feeling you have while looking out. Are there any animals? Sounds from your neighbors? Cars passing by? Focus your mind on noticing the things out your window. Pay attention on purpose to every detail you can see and feel.
  • The Cloud Meditation – We do this as kids and don’t even know how we are calming our minds as well. Find a relaxing place to sit or lay down outside. The beach is a great place for this! Just cloud gaze and see things in the clouds. Remember when you could look up and see a teddy bear in the sky that slowly drifts away and turns into something else or dissipates into the air? This is a great one to do with kids! Just make sure you put on your sunscreen and sunglasses on before staring into the sky!
  • The Candle Meditation – The candle meditation can be done anywhere that is safe to light a candle. Tea lights work well because you can easily hold it in your hand to see the flame more closely. Notice the colors, the movement and the size of the flame. It is more still or does it flicker? How many colors do you see? How many layers? Fire is actually a very calming thing to gaze into. This one is not recommended for children, irresponsible adults or sleepy people. NEVER light a candle and then go to sleep. Please be responsible and safe.
  • The Mindful Parent Meditation – Do you have children? Then you’ve already done this. You probably do it or used to do it everyday. Remember those nights rocking your little one? Rubbing their back and their heads. Smelling their hair, singing softly in their tiny ears. Thinking with such a powerful focus about how much you love them. Yes, my dear. You were mindfully meditating.
  • You can of course make up your own mindful meditation as well! You just need something to focus on. Something to be with. Something to be present with.

I hope my thoughts on mindful meditation inspired you to try it, opened your eyes or just gave you something to think about. Meditation is so good for our minds and our bodies and in my opinion, practicing mindfulness makes us better people.

Until next time…….