“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”
Have you ever heard that quote? If you want the world to be more kind, you need to be more kind. If you want the world to be more mindful, you must be more mindful.
A random act of kindness is a selfless act performed by kind people to either help or cheer up a random stranger, friend, neighbor or co-worker for no reason other than to make them happier. It doesn’t matter if it’s spontaneous or planned, all that matters is that you’ve brightened someone’s day!
Nothing is to big or too small, whether you buy a coffee for the person behind you at the coffee shop or pay someone’s bill at a restaurant.
Acts of kindness are more powerful than you may think. A small kind gesture could completely change someone’s day, week, month or year!
Here are some ideas to get you started on your random acts of kindness:
- Pay for someone’s coffee at the coffee shop – This is probably the most common act of kindness that you hear about. It doesn’t matter if the next person has the money to pay for their coffee or not. The amazing thing about this act, is the amount of people that keep paying it forward. I was speaking to a friend of mine who works in a coffee shop. She said the most powerful part of this is how far the free coffees go. She will tell the person at the counter that their coffee has been paid for and then that person almost always buys the next person’s coffee. Amazing.
- Compliment someone everyday – Just saying something small can change someone’s entire day. “Your hair looks nice”, “I love that shirt” or “You have a beautiful smile”. Whatever you feel comfortable saying to someone without being fake, or feeling uncomfortable. Read an article HERE about how receiving a compliment gives you the same feeling as when you receive money.
- Send a card – Homemade or store bought, that’s up to you. You could send cards to patients at hospitals or nursing homes. You can start the letter with “Dear Friend”. If you don’t know where to send your letters, check out this website called Love for the Elderly.
- Send a letter or care package to a soldier – Go to anysoldier.com for info and instructions on how to send a letter or care package to a soldier.
- Plant some seeds and give out the plants – You can buy packs of seeds for less than a dollar. Plant them in dixie cups, egg shells, yogurt containers or babyfood jars. Once it starts to grow, attach a little kind note and/or care instructions and give away! Set up a table in your drive way that says FREE PLANTS or put one on each door step on your street.
- Buy some cold drinks for people working outside in the summer – It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Buy a gallon of juice, water or Gatorade and get some paper cups. If you see people working outside in the winter, bring them some hot chocolate, coffee or tea.
- Make Blessing bags or Hygiene bags to give to the homeless – There are many resources on the internet to look up how to make these and of course you could make up your own. Go HERE to see a check list to give you ideas on what you could put in yours.
- Tip your waitperson extra – Give a great tip to your waitperson who went above and beyond. Or maybe tip them extra to make them smile or tip them extra for no reason at all!
- Be an ELF – Check the Beanelf.org website to see if you live near any of the participating post offices. Then buy gifts for the children for Christmas. If you do not live near any of the participating post offices, call social services or the police station to ask how you could sponsor a family or a child for Christmas. Go HERE for other ways to be an ELF.
- Pay for someone’s meal – Ask the waitperson not to tell them who did. Have the waitperson give them a note that says “Pass on the kindness” or any other positive message.
- Make meals for the elderly or home bound people – Maybe you have someone in mind already that’s in your neighborhood. Don’t know who could use a home cooked meal?? Call the senior center in your town, I bet they will have an idea.
- Write positive messages on Post-Its – Then leave them in random places. The mirror in a public restroom, next to the coin slot on a vending machine or the back of a bus seat. The possibilities are endless. “You are beautiful!” or “You are Strong” are just a couple of examples.
- Say hi and wave to strangers – This little free act of kindness could make someone smile and completely change their day!
- Donate Items to the homeless shelter or food bank – It doesn’t only have to be food. Call them and ask them what they are really in need of. Donate what most people are not thinking of. Deodorant, feminine hygiene products, razors, water bottles, toothbrushes, toothpaste, diapers, formula or socks.
- Donate or hold a fundraiser to help foster kids – There is a great organization called Together We Rise. They are a charity that helps give filled duffel bags to foster kids. Donate to sponsor a duffel bag or hold a fundraiser to sponsor multiple duffel bags, give bikes and skateboards to foster kids and send them birthday boxes! This is one amazing organization!
- Write a thank you note – Thank a police officer, a veteran, your mail carrier, a teacher, the list goes on…….
- Leave pennies HEADS UP on sidewalks – Finding a penny “heads up” is good luck, right? Give someone the gift of good luck!
- Hold the door open – For anyone and everyone, every chance you get.
- Give your old books to the library – The library usually will take all book donations as long as the books are in good shape.
- Buy a lottery ticket for a stranger – Get some quick picks or scratch tickets, hand them out and wish them good luck!
- Donate a toy or book to a waiting room – Doctor’s office or Oil change service center. Any waiting room that is need of a toy or book to occupy a little one.
- Make Kindness Stones and leave them places – Check out this website Thekindnessrocksproject.com and search Pinterest for quote ideas.
- Pick up Litter – Find a spot in need and clean it up. If everyone did this, just imagine how clean and beautiful every place could be…
- Buy EXTRA school supplies for a teacher – Your child’s teacher or any teacher. Don’t know what to buy? Give them a gift card to Walmart or a Arts and Crafts store.
- Make dinner for a family who has a new baby – And while your at it, watch the baby so they can actually eat it.
- Give away stuff for FREE – Put an add on Craigslist or Facebook and give something away for free that you do not need anymore.
- Donate your old eyeglasses instead of throwing them away – The Lyons Club is just one place that will find someone who is in need of your old pair.
- Send anonymous flowers to someone – Anyone who you think could use it. Someone at work, someone random, a teacher, a mom, someone who works hard….
- Baby-sit for a single mom for free – Of course it is kind to baby-sit for anyone for free. As a single mom, I will NEVER FORGET the friends that did this for me!
- Leave a Gift at the Laundromat – Maybe some quarters on top of a machine or buy some soap and static sheets and leave them at the machine with a little kind note!
- Plant a tree – When you plant a tree, you are being kind to everyone AND the Earth!
- Always say YES when the cashier asks you to donate $1.00 – Not only is it kind to donate to charity, often the cashier who gets the most people to donate ‘wins’ something from their employer.
- Give someone a hug – Anyone, but please ASK first and make sure it’s ok.
- Befriend a lonely or shy person – Sometimes others have difficulty starting conversations. That’s where YOU come in.
- Let people ‘Merge in’ During traffic – EVEN if no one was letting you in, the kindness has to start somewhere!
- Keep extra pens on hand – Don’t just let someone use your pen, give them your extra!
- Be a mentor – Maybe you already have someone in mind you can mentor, if you don’t, you could be a Big Brother or Big Sister.
- Help someone look for a job – Keep an eye out for job openings for them or maybe just help them spice up their resume.
- Put extra coins in someone’s parking meter – Giving some of your pocket change could give someone the gift of NOT getting a parking ticket!
- Talk to a manager about their GREAT employee – Be that person who wants to talk to the manager about their GREAT experience! It will be refreshing to the manager to not hear someone complain and maybe the employee will get something nice!
- Share a friend’s Facebook Page, Blog, Etsy Shop or You Tube video – Let them know that you see their efforts and show them you care.
- Hold the Elevator – If you see someone coming, hold it for them! You will make their day!
- Help someone move – Everyone hides when they hear someone’s moving! Be that person who offers to help pack up boxes or carry them to the truck!
- Say THANK YOU – And mean it!!
- Donate your hair – There are many places to donate your hair, but some organizations who take hair donations charge people for the wigs. Wigs for Kids gives FREE wigs to kids in need.
- Volunteer – There are many places you can volunteer besides the soup kitchen. Homeless shelters, animal shelters, farms, nursing homes, the YMCA, schools, the fire department and more.
- Pay it forward at the Ice Cream truck – Ask any ice cream truck driver how many kids ask for ice cream and have no money. More than you think!
- Help a neighbor – Yard work, shoveling snow, baby sitting, cooking, errands or anything else they have a need for.
- Let someone go ahead of you – Maybe someone behind you at the grocery store has less things than you or you have a pregnant lady behind you in the line to the bathroom. Just let them go first.
- Be kind to yourself – You will never truly be able to practice acts of kindness with out being kind to yourself first. Be mindful of the way you talk to yourself, because YOU are listening.
I hope my ideas inspired you! Please comment if you would like to share any ideas you have or share acts of kindness you have completed!